
by Alison Despathy
In October 2020, Bryeanne Russillo and her daughter moved to Vermont to escape the chaos of Long Island. They were excited and held visions of the life they would live together close to nature and connected with a small community. First stop landed them in Morrisville where Bryeanne’s daughter attended People’s Academy and all was settling into a comfortable rhythm. Her daughter had friends and was thriving at the new school. This continued for a year.
In August 2021, they found a house to buy in Cabot and they moved into their new home excited for the next chapter of their Vermont journey. Bryeanne’s daughter would miss her friends but held high hopes for her new school in Cabot. Her first week as a 7th grader at the Cabot school was promising. The second week a student threw a rock at her head and from here everything took a turn for the worse and has only intensified in an ongoing struggle.
For almost two years now, Bryeanne has been emailing the school, attending board meetings, talking to the principal, teachers and superintendent to try and find an option for her daughter who is bullied by other students on a regular basis. She has documented all of her email exchanges with teachers, staff, the school nurse, the school board, the superintendent and the principal. They are all well aware of Bryeanne’s daughter’s situation yet none have offered a solution for her to attend school elsewhere
Bryeanne is desperately seeking an option for her daughter who is now diagnosed with anorexia and depression. In our conversation, Bryeanne shared, “She cannot stay in that school. A child with diagnosed depression and threatening suicide because the school is such a stressful place for her is just wrong. I have reported bullying for months and there has been no resolution.
Even her daughter’s dietitian who has worked closely with her to monitor the anorexia and behaviors around food has been concerned and disappointed with the lack of support the school has offered. She sent an email to school staff regarding issues related to her food access stating, “I am also concerned for the safety and wellness of ——– in this particular school environment.”
Fortunately Bryeanne and her daughter have a close and trustworthy relationship. Bryeanne has been a rock for her daughter and their communications demonstrate the unconditional love and support that Bryeanne offers her daughter as she endures this level of pain.
Many days she doesn’t want to go to school. She has been hit twice by another student and there is a group of “mean girls” who harass her. “The school has destroyed my child’s confidence.” Bryeanne shared. These are formative years that cannot be reclaimed and Bryeanne does not feel that she has received support or guidance from anyone.
Bryeanne recognizes that Cabot school is a great match for some students, she is simply seeking an alternative for her daughter because it has not been working for years. They have given it a solid chance and have tried multiple approaches to attempt a positive and safe learning experience.
Cabot is not a school choice town. They do have a lottery program in which 10 students are offered an opportunity to attend another public school. There are 38 students in the high school. Having just recently found out about this lottery option, Bryeanne applied and hoped that with her daughter’s struggles and the School board’s awareness of the situation that she would be granted a lottery slot.
Bryeanne was informed this past week that there were four applicants and only two slots available. Her daughter would not be awarded the option to attend another school.
As you can imagine this was devastating for Bryeanne and her daughter. They had hoped that her daughter’s situation would factor into the decision but apparently it was a third party making the determination. Bryeanne was told that if she wanted an option, she could move or homeschool her daughter. Neither of these options are viable at this time, her home is in Cabot and housing and rentals are severely limited in many parts of the state.
Bryeanne is realistic, she knows her daughter has made some poor choices at school. In an attempt to fit in with some high school students, as she seeks friends and acceptance, she was offered what appeared to be a nicotine pouch called a Zyn. Bryeanne’s daughter had never done something like this before, she immediately became sick and the dose landed her in an ambulance at school with a trip to the emergency room.
On top of all of this, the behavioral problems of many students at the school are interfering with actual education. There are students attending Cabot who are—right or wrong– often collectively referred to as the “trauma kids”. Many of these children have parents with addiction issues, are foster children or they themselves are doing drugs.
Last year Bryeanne’s daughter was in a class in which a group of boys were so loud and uncontrollable that the teacher regularly offered the other students the option to go elsewhere to do their work. It is not just Cabot school experiencing this struggle but here many parents believe it is interfering with actual educational opportunity.

Due to concerns related to rampant behavioral issues and multiple reports of ongoing bullying earlier this year, the Cabot school conducted a study to assess parents’ opinions of their child’s experience at the Cabot school. It was called the “climate survey” which was misleading for many parents who did not understand this was about the school climate and behavioral environment and thus did not take part.
There were 31 responses which represent roughly 1/5 of the students. There are approximately 150 students and only 38 high school students. Many parents have several children in the school which makes this number of respondents quite significant. These responses reflect the degree of concern about the ‘climate’ within the school. Leadership deemed this too small a group of respondents to be meaningful and noted that action was already in place to address some of the issues raised.
A sampling of the survey questions and results are as follow:
- The climate in my child’s classroom is supportive and safe.
Almost half disagreed with this statement
32.3% disagreed,
12.9% strongly disagreed
32.3% agreed. - The climate in my child’s classroom allows learning to occur.
Almost half disagreed
41.9% disagree
12.9% strongly disagree
29% agree
3.2% strongly agreed - Behavior issues in my child’s classroom frequently make it difficult for my child to learn
Two thirds of respondents agreed with this statement.
35.5% agree
35.% strongly agree
- I feel that my child is receiving a quality educational experience
Almost 60% disagreed with this statement
38.7% disagree
19.4% strongly disagree - I feel that the behavioral intervention system being used at school is effective at maintaining an effective learning environment.
24 out of 31 respondents disagree with this statement
41.9% strongly disagree
35.5% disagree
Several public schools including Cabot have implemented Positive Behavioral Interventions and Supports, commonly known as PBIS, to promote school safety and good behavior. PBIS is focused on prevention not punishment and children are taught about their behavior expectations and strategies.
In the climate survey, several parents shared their opinions on the PBIS model. One parent explained that their students, “have expressed anxious feelings about their school day as it related to PBIS and discipline. They feel unsupported when they bring their concerns forward or are worried about being pulled out of class to process incidents they may or may not have been involved in. From our experience, the PBIS approach proactively seeks opportunities to intervene which can make matters feel bigger than necessary and pulls students away from the classroom. It feels a bit like a social experiment or creating a problem that doesn’t really exist”.
Additional comments include concerns around the absence of a “clear ‘floor’ for what is unacceptable behavior” and that “the PBIS framework distracts students from how to resolve issues with classmates in a meaningful way.” Regarding PBIS, one parent stated, “It is a distraction from the learning environment and it feels like an endless cycle. Our students should be in the classroom and if an issue requires them to leave, this should be communicated with parents. Too often students are being taken out of the class for PBIS.”
Due to these behavioral and bullying issues, the school’s regularly failed budget (except this year despite an increase of ~25%), dwindling enrollment, troubles recruiting and retaining staff, and declines in academic performance and basic skills, several community members gathered signatures for a petition to include an article on the town meeting ballot to close the Cabot High School and tuition students out.
As always, this ballot item was highly contentious and the debate leading up to town meeting was emotionally intense. Communities will fight fiercely to hold on to their small local schools. There is so much a small town school offers a community. The ballot item was strictly intended to close the high school, not the grade school.
With ongoing financial struggles and dwindling enrollment, the school board had already begun conversations on the possibility of merging with Twinfield, a nearby public school. This ballot item would have secured school choice for all Cabot High School students versus limiting students to the Twinfield option only.
Complaints from school choice towns are nonexistent. Many families actively seek homes in these towns in order to choose the best match for their children.
When there are questions related to high levels of behavior issues, chronic bullying, academic performance declines, deficiencies in basic skills, staffing problems, economic viability, curriculum concerns and controversy, what is a town to do?
On Town Meeting Day, Vermont Public interviewed Cabot resident Richard Lacelle. When asked why he voted to close the high school and offer students school choice. He explained that, “They’re turning out more social justice warriors versus focusing on actual education.”
In the windows of a school building read the words, social change.

This ballot item to close the Cabot High School and tuition students out ultimately failed with a vote of 239 to 367. The number of Cabot residents who voted to close the high school reflects the school’s issues and resident’s desire for options. Many are not happy with the performance of the school, the ever increasing property taxes (especially this year with Act 127) and their child’s school experience. Children thrive in different environments and without options, the education and emotional, physical and social health of students are compromised as is the case for Bryeanne’s daughter.

In the past several years as Vermont public school enrollments and performance decline, there has been an attack on private and independent schools throughout the state. Both S.66 and H.258 reflect this drive to restrict money to public schools alone (with a few exceptions). These bills were fought last session by both families and schools throughout Vermont.
In the statehouse this was led by Vermont Public School lobbyists and several legislators who are proactively working to limit families’ options for schools outside the public school system. This appears to stem from fears around a collapsing public school system that does not have the capacity to serve all students. Unfounded and erroneous reasons of discrimination and cost within non-public school are often used to bolster the public school only argument.
When something is not working, people will seek solutions. Actions to thwart this natural human response to a problem is currently in play on the legislative level. Families deserve options in order to choose the right match for their child.
The latest attempt to limit options for students and communities is evident in H.634, a bill sponsored by Representatives Sibilia and Holcombe. H.634 would ultimately eliminate school choice for any towns moving forward with a school closure. It requires designation of public schools.
The Vermont public school lobbyists are paid to secure the future viability of Public schools. However the fundamental question is when it is at the cost of serving students will this be tolerated. For many it is a step too far. Despite declining academic performance, the cost of education in Vermont has skyrocketed over the years. Parents would like their children to be in a safe environment with educational opportunities.
Representative Terri Williams resides on the House education committee, she has been closely watching this situation unfold at the statehouse. Williams shared “The big message from public school lobbyists is that public dollars must go to public schools and that this will help strengthen our public school system.” Despite ever increasing budgets, how long will this vicious cycle continue and when will students actually receive quality educational opportunity?
H.634 would fully monopolize education in Vermont at the expense of the children. There are multiple reasons why students and parents may struggle with a public school only model. Academics, behavioral issues, and curriculum concerns top the list for many parents seeking options.
Representative Williams stated, “When one is talking about equal opportunity, they must remove their blinders and have a serious conversation about what is best for the child.” She explained that, “This concept is lost because most conversations revolve around money and public schools.” It is clear that, “not all school settings fit all students.”
Bryeanne has recently requested an evaluation for her daughter to receive an Individualized Learning Plan (IEP) due to her documented health concerns. She is also scheduled to present testimony to the school board to request that her daughter be tuitioned out to a different school under Vermont Statute 16 V.S.A. § 822.
Byreanne and her daughter are seeking compassion and guidance as they attempt to navigate their options. They feel unsupported and even shunned and shamed because of the situation. There are always different sides to a story. This is their story.
Input from the superintendent, the Cabot principal and the School Board for any comment regarding the situation has been requested. If responses are shared, this article will be updated.
This entire scenario presents the problems with the public school monopoly system. It seems student retention at the school and funding are the number one priority and even trump what is actually best for the student.
In a student-centered education system, Bryeanne’s daughter would have been back at People’s Academy a long time ago instead of continuing to suffer through a highly stressful experience at the Cabot School. They are hoping for resolution and Bryeanne continues to fight for her daughter’s safety and overall well being, as any good parent would.
The author is a clinical nutritionist in St. Johnsbury.
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Anyone else scroll to the picture of the school see the flags and say to themselves:
“There’s your problem right there!”
Exactly. If you aren’t considered historically marginalized, then you don’t matter. Now if that was a young child deemed as historically marginalized then the offending children would ha e been severely punished. In Essex, the school board wanted to file sexual assault charges against a very young, white child (5-6) for wanting to hold the hand of his black classmate.
That was my thought, only flags that should be at an public school is the US and state.
Yes, by now it is no doubt widely known who all the perpetrators are. THEY are the ones who need to be removed from the scene and put into remedial settings that have been commonplace in some school districts. Why is this not happening ? The poor girl who is the victim here is not the problem. Get to the bottom of it, deal with it, and move on.
@Todd
We just got the BLM flag voted off our school pole. It’s coming down and the only flags allowed are USA & VT.
You know what far and away the best “IEP” is? Homeschooling. Just do it.
Outrageous. Where is the school board? Does the board not realize that it, and it alone, has the authority to tuition Bryeanne Russillo’s daughter to any school she chooses.
16 V.S.A. § 822. School district to maintain public high schools or pay tuition.
(c)(1) A school district may both maintain a high school and furnish high school education by paying tuition:
(B) to an approved independent school or an independent school meeting education quality standards if the school board judges that a student has unique educational needs that cannot be served within the district or at a nearby public school.
(2) The judgment of the board shall be final in regard to the institution the students may attend at public cost.
I repeat: “The judgment of the board shall be final in regard to the institution the students may attend at public cost.”
Oh, but it should also be noted that the Chair of the Cabot School Board, Ellen Cairns, is employed by the Vermont Agency of Education (AOE) as an Educator Preparation Program Approval Consultant and Early Childhood Assessment Coordinator.
How is a conflict of interest like this allowed to occur? Because Ms. Cairns, in all likelihood (i.e., should have), received a waiver from, yes – you guessed it, The Vermont Agency of Education.
My advice: Ms. Russillo should begin to homeschool her daughter asap and contact the folks at the Alliance Defending Freedom who have successfully sued the AOE for a parents right to school choice and hold school administrators legally responsible for her daughter’s harm while attending the Cabot School.
Hey Jay,
This one’s for you….
Complaints from school choice towns are nonexistent. Many families actively seek homes in these towns in order to choose the best match for their children.
Problem solved……..why wouldn’t’ they do it?
Pass a simple rule, and everyone, students and parents are happy!!!!! Who do they work for? If you are in a “democracy” you’d want your people to be happy, and this is so simple and easy to pass, yet they’ll do anything but this….
How come?
There are many reasons, the biggest being they don’t care about your kids or the population, see they don’t work for you…….don’t be fooled again.
They care only about confiscating your money as they struggle to think well of themselves…
I would say the latter is well taken care of; they are very much high minded toward themselves…. they are Gods, they know everything, and we should bow down to all their mandates.
They are working feverously for more money, no argument there, well except for those pesky voters, but they don’t know anything, so they’ll be steam rolled, as usual.
Of course, all the while, justifying everything is for the kids…….it’s for the kids.
Welcome the Russillo family to the liberal Vermont school system, if the school board doesn’t resolve and punish those who harassed your child, get a good lawyer and sue the ” living Sht ” out of the school district………………
Pull your child from the public school indoctrination, home school, or a parochial school……………. get a lawyer !!
Unconscionable.
The bullies should be/should have been immediately suspended, and if any of the behavior is repeated, immediately expelled. Let them and their parents bear the burden and consequences of their cruelty.
The leadership of the school must also be called to account and fired for failing to protect the vulnerable in their care.
But, as is typical in our society today, the criminals are coddled, while the victims are left to fend for themselves or worse. Many bullies kids commit suicide.
That is not the kind of justice in which communities can thrive.
Let’s sue public schools whether it is for allowing girls to take pictures of boys without permission or the bullying. Absolute corruption. Radical left insanity. Take your kids out of the “public” government establishment schools because they are destructive to people trying to make a life.
Do not allow this child to remain in such horrific surroundings. There are alternatives, and Catholic or other Christian schools often offer tuition assistance if need be, and your child will be immersed in an environment wherein morality, ethics, and values are both preached as well as practiced amidst basic academics.
As a person who also relocated to Vermont from Long Island myself nearly 25 years ago in hopes of a better life and accepting, peaceful culture, this story makes me incredibly sad. I certainly hope that this child’s mother makes imminent changes and that this young girl’s life change profoundly for the better.
one thing about moving to vermont/// it you do not have a problem you soon will and we have a large group of people to help you//// we just need more taxes///
Here Here!!! We just need more taxes and all our problems will be solved. Please make your direct deposit paychecks to directly to Vermont Department of Taxes!
Free money, it’s all free money….we need more!
How ironic, if she was claiming to be transgender, the whole administration would have jumped all over it and expelled the bullies, but I guess old style bullying is just fine with with school. So sad.
There is much to unpack here other than the systemic diversity, inclusion and equity bully tactics and lies spewed loudly from pulpits and lecturns across the State.
A bully is nothing more than a fearful, insecure, low-esteem individual who puffs up in anger or belittles another to hide their weakness – no matter the age. The victim in this case is an adolescent who has moved three times in three years? From Long Island, New York to Vermont – aka culture shock. The young lady is likely bewildered and feeling lost from leaving a home she knew well to a land of largely ignorant, stupified, misfits and twits. I can say that because I’ve lived here all my life (50+ years.)
I empathize with the situation, but we live a world that no authority figure or society as a whole, gives a hoot about anyone’s feelings, let alone individual rights or sovereinty. Regardless of the rhetoric, propaganda, or feel goodness gaslighting Vermont has become in the past ten years. If anyone has not learned that since 2020, they are woefully destined to struggle and fail. All I can say, the world will not bend because one feels slighted or unaccepted by a group flailing and wailing in this sick culture and collapsing society.
The Truth is it does take a village, but when the village is infiltrated with self-absorded, self-serving morons, the individual must stand up and face it head on with grace, fortitude, and dignity. Unfortunately, many youth and adults are taught victimhood over being conquerors through adversity. Best of luck. God’s Word is a formidible defense – but most won’t take advantage of it or practice it – even the ones sitting in the pews every Sunday.
and if you do a self-check, am I sitting on a trash heap? Do I have sores all over my body? Are the dogs licking my sores? Even then, even when things are this bad there is hope. Just ask Job……..
Our children and people are TAUGHT to envy others. This is something that is the opposite of a sound mind, done on purpose I might add. It is only when you are grateful, grateful for all the things we have that we can move in a positive direction. There is much, much to be grateful for, of course that is not taught in our government indoctrination centers, known colloquially as schools.
Thou shall not covet thy neighbor’s ox.
in today’s language…
You shouldn’t be envious toward your neighbors BMW
The 10 commandments are rock solid, which is why they are outlawed in the government indoctrination centers.
I believe many people can attest to issues while attending Vermont schools and offer up much testimony – likely a few generations worth. When I was entering 6th grade, I was moved from a large multi-town elementary school to a small city middle school. Only a few miles, but it felt like a world away. It took a while to adjust, but kids and society back in late 1970’s were not as corrupted by social media degredation as they are today. I saw it declining in 90’s into the early 2000’s as younger coworkers didn’t seem to know much about anything except the latest Nintendo releases, pop culture or they knew it from Facebook.
The boiling frogs in the pot meme is very accurate. Those who know shall overcome and survive. The tares are ready for harvest and the warnings are everywhere.
The picture is worth a thousand words