Society & Culture

Famous actor married in Vermont full of regret

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By Ted Cohen

Michael J. Fox says he’s sorry he married his wife Tracy Jo Pollan due to the pain he has caused her.

Fox says in a new interview the two were hitched “under the Vermont sun” decades ago.

Like most young couples, the early first years – forged with ‘I do’s’ said in the rugged Vermont countryside in 1988 – were blissful.

But Fox added that, given his subsequent health battles, he regrets saying “I do” and eventually putting all his troubles on his wife.

Fox, 64, who suffers from a debilitating case of Parkinson’s disease, said his health has taken an unfair, irreversible toll on his 65-year-old wife.

Pollan met Fox while working on the TV series Family Ties in 1985. Though they played a couple on the show, they did not date in real life at the time, and Pollan left the series after a year to pursue other acting opportunities.

Pollan and Fox met again during the production of Bright Lights, Big City in 1987 and after beginning a relationship, they married on July 16, 1988 at West Mountain Inn in Arlington, Vermont.

Shortly before the couple’s marriage, Fox purchased a 121-acre estate named Lottery Hill Farm in South Woodstock, Vermont.

Just three years after saying their Vermont vows, Fox was diagnosed in 1991 with Parkinson’s disease, a secret he kept from the public until 1998.

“I truly regret marrying Tracy Pollan,” Fox says in an interview that just dropped on TikTok. “I’ve ruined her life.

“Thirty-seven years ago in the Vermont sun I held her hand and said ‘I do,’ thinking I’d give her a lifetime of stability. But I never saw it coming. Parkinson’s would shred that promise.

“The day I was diagnosed she held me and cried,” he added. “After that her whole life has revolved around me.”

“She used to be the kind of girl who loved shopping and going to the movies with friends,” he says. “But later her schedule was filled with my doctor’s appointments, physical therapy and helping me organize materials for the nonprofit foundation.

“She’s the one who should be taking care of but instead she’s shielding me, keeping me safe. I regret not loving her but making her carry so much for me.

“Her life should have been brighter not dragged down by my illness.”

Despite Fox’s guilt, his devoted wife and partner said in a separate interview that if she had it to do again she would.

“I’ve never regretted marrying Michael J. Fox,” Pollan said. “When he was diagnosed I told myself I’d stand by him, and what keeps that resolve strong are three irreplaceable qualities he has:

“His devotion to family is rooted in who he is,” she added. “All these years no matter how much his body aches he’s never stepped back from being a husband or a dad.

“Second, he never lets pain hold him back from what he loves, including his acting and supporting the foundation,” she said. “Last, there’s his constant optimism and humor. My loyalty is a choice I’m happy to make.”

The enduring longtime marriage must owe a good part of its staying power to rock-ribbed Vermont.


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6 replies »

  1. Here is a marriage filled with love and devotion, and one member is complaining about it, regretting it. It would seem that she gets it.

    People struggle with Love, we are teaching our children that lust is love, that having it all is love……what happens when things go south? That is when true love steps in.

    Here we are witnessing true love, too bad Micheal doesn’t get it.

    • I don’t think he really regrets it and I also believe if the rolls we reversed he would be devoted to her as well. Those thoughts are normal when you have a Chronic Illness no matter how much you love your Spouse. You think and say them because of how much you love them. You understand how hard it is on them. The things they are missing out on because of your illness. In Sickness and In Health is Truly the Vow that is taken. Michael Fox knows this and what he said actually proves that. His is and always will be one of Hollywood’s strongest marriages until death do they part.

  2. Try instead considering the hardships of a “caretaker” spouse without all the advantages of hundreds of millions of greenbacks which allow you to hire round-the-clock nurses, physicians at your beck & call, a private chef, live-in housekeepers, etc.
    True love knows no sacrifice too large.

  3. Having had a spouse with a debilitating chronic terminal illness, it isn’t regret. It is guilt that his wife put her life aside for him. Every chronically ill person I have known feels that for their spouse. They are luckier than most people. They aren’t having to scrape and scrounge to get medical care or live on one salary while navigating the SSDI route. It’s hard on families.

  4. Other than the word “Vermont” in the title of this article, not sure why this needs to be shown at all. The classic tale of “poor me syndrome”? It was better left unsaid.

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